Meet Danielle Nonog | Date Coach & San Diego based Matchmaker

We had the good fortune of connecting with Danielle Nonog and we’ve shared our conversation below.

Hi Danielle, we’d love to hear more about how you thought about starting your own business?
Originally, I was life coaching for entertainers to increase their sales by teaching them the art of conversation and increasing their magnetism. I had been the go-to person when they needed help in effectively asking for what they want, background checking, or analyzing their customer’s or date’s character traits since I’ve always been known to be incredibly observant. The idea started off with me having the desire to grow a community of my own because I didn’t like being alone.

As I helped over 500 women and over 50 men the past 6 years, they shared feedback that I’ve helped them navigate through unconventional relationships, and helped them release their relational blocks so they can attract what they truly desire and need.

I didn’t think much of it at the time, but I always enjoyed connecting my friends within my network in case they’d be great collaborators or to see if their romantic chemistry would spark.

Thus, my life coaching services unfolded and I became a Date Coach and San Diego based matchmaker.

As I continuously strengthened the friendships and relationships in my own life, I’ve had a strong desire to help my friends thrive in a loving relationship like I am right now!

Can you give our readers an introduction to your business? Maybe you can share a bit about what you do and what sets you apart from others?
Love, attraction, seduction, conscious communication, all of this is an art to me. This subject makes it easy for me to fall in love with over and over again.

I see the gap in today’s world of Modern Dating & Relationships. Modern Singles have been conditioned to prioritize the Hustle above all else, that they inevitably are underdeveloped in relating with one another, and knowing how to be intimate.

While technology meant to serve us well in humanity, it’s making the dating scene feel like a fast food service to a point where relationships start to feel disposable.

I easily see that the gap can be bridged if singles were to go through my 3 step Dating Mastery Method.

1. Magnify:
We deep dive & uncover who you are, what you desire, and identify your relational blocks.
2. Magnetize:
Strengthen your aura & magnetism, This is where we sharpen your vetting skills, identify your non-negotiable, and neutralize your triggers so that dating gets to be fun & effortlessly lighthearted. We will also identify your archetype so you know what makes you uniquely charismatic & sexy.
3. Match:
Through the action of dating, we will extract love lessons, and implement these lessons. Repeat until you attract your ideal match.

There’s a lot to my story on why I’m so passionate about this, but my shortened version of this was that I used to be a socially awkward girl with low self-esteem. I was such a loner because I held on to so much shame, resentment, and grudge. It turned me into an angry martyr. I felt like the world owed me something for putting everyone else but me first. I also used to be one of those women that took so much pride in being a hyper-independent boss-babe, and developed a belief that romance was a waste of time, and that money is the only thing I know that would never cheat on me and had my back.

Eventually, I admitted that being lonely has been painful, and I got tired of feeling like a hamster on a wheel, so I decided to invest in personal development programs and hired a life coach.

It was the best decision of my life, because I found that when I’m in healthier relationships, my life flourishes 10x when my relationships are high quality. I used to think binary, where I only had to chose an awesome relationship or be successful with money, but I instead found that my relationship with money upgrades when I’m in healthy relationships.

I wish this for everyone! We’re not meant to be alone.

If you had a friend visiting you, what are some of the local spots you’d want to take them around to?
If my best friend were in town, I’d take them to Hillcrest to enjoy all the sassy-vibe among the neighborhood. Maya Moon in Adams Avenue to cozy up with some flavorful cacao. Stroll along Little Italy and try any restaurant that catches our eyes, they’re all cute. And hang out at the beach in La Jolla.

The Shoutout series is all about recognizing that our success and where we are in life is at least somewhat thanks to the efforts, support, mentorship, love and encouragement of others. So is there someone that you want to dedicate your shoutout to?
I want to give a special shoutout to my significant other, Cuyla Coogan. Through our relationship, she strengthened my faith in taking my purpose and business seriously. I had a tendency to bite off more than I could chew, being a jack of all trades and a master of none. And she supported me in being clear on exactly what it is that I want so the actions I took are effective, and she put me at ease whenever I felt stuck and overwhelmed. She also had a natural way of bringing me back to myself when I feel like isolating or roguing.

I also want to give shoutouts to my family that live in Vegas. No matter what crazy business venture I decide to jump into, they always showed support in some shape or form. Shoutout to my coach Kathrin Mae, my friend Erika Briones, and many others. These ladies in particular come to mind because they keep me accountable, keep me productive and supported connecting me with clients, and I highly appreciate and respect them for caring enough about me to share with me what I need to hear, not what I want to hear. To me, that’s true love.

Website: www.daniellenonog.com

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Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielle-nonog-18a31868

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Ania Volovique Marsha Feinberg